Starving Students?

The past couple nights Andrew and I have had Parent Teacher Interviews at school... 4 hours on both Tues and Wed AFTER teaching all day... needless to say, we are VERY glad that they're done with for now!!

The cool thing about it was that almost 100% of the parents came out, which would NEVER happen in Canada. Also, the students came along with their parents, so they could hear exactly what was being said about them. Here are some of the highlights:

The funniest quote came from a mother, who when she found out that her son was getting a B in my class, turned to him, gave him a little smack on the head with his report card, and threatened him with "No A, no food for you!" I tried to keep a straight face, but just couldn't pull it off... I burst out laughing. I'm not sure if she was serious or not, but the kid looked a little scared!

As most of the parents don't speak English, the interviews were all done through a translator (which takes a little getting used to- you have to remember to keep your sentances short and pause every couple sentances to make sure that everything you just said actually makes it into the translation). Anyways, one dad told me that he thought his son's English was very poor. So I asked him "Do you speak any English?" (of course he didn't understand this so it went thru the translator). "No" was the answer to my question (surprise, surprise). Most of the parents are pretty quick on the draw, but this man didn't seem to see the blatant irony in his statement!

6 more weeks of classes before exams, and 7.5 weeks till we fly home for the summer. Can't wait!

Winner!

Those of you who read this blog regularily will remember my post from a couple weeks ago... the one where I bought the moldy feta cheese and then put my receipt in the draw box for chocolates.

Well, last week I got a phone call with very happy news: I was one of the winners! They told me in broken English where I could go to claim my prize, so this weekend Andrew and I set out to do that... getting there was an adventure, as we communicating to the "customer service" people that I had won chocolates. After quite some time of miming a draw box and getting out translating books, they finally worked out why I was there and happily gave me a big gift-wrapped box of chocolates... turns out they were all individually flavoured bars with cool names (see the pic above)... so delicious. Now I just have to make sure I don't eat them all at once!

Crazy School Trip

Yesterday we had the joy/frustration of going on another trip with our school.  I say "joy" b/c it was nice being away from our regular teaching schedule, but "frustration" b/c we spent 6 hours on the bus getting there and back thru Shanghai rush-hour.  Man, we might as well have flown back to Bali in that time!  

The trip was to a town a couple hours out of Shanghai called Suzhou (pronounced "Soo-jo")-first to a famous mountain (more of a hill if you're from BC!), and then to an amusement park.  It was incredible how clean the air seemed for only being a couple hours away from the Shanger.  It was so nice and refreshing (literally!).  Also, it was one of the rare times we've seen trees, leaves, and grass in the past 8 months, so definitely a big treat!  

The amusement park was kinda like Disneyland, but since it was a Wednesday it was SO empty... just our 9 busloads of school kids were there... all the kids were let loose and were just told when to be back at the buses... the whole thing was super organized by the Chinese staff with kids marching to busses with corresponding numbers in their hands, a megaphone-man leading the whole procession.  Once at the park, the kids were in groups with student-leaders who had to text their teachers every couple of hours and account for everyone in their group... no one was left behind this way.  Very efficient... another thing that would NEVER happen in a Canadian high school!

This is the front of the park... lion-riding, our new favorite.  

Water feature at the entrance.  You could walk underneath the spray but the water was all manky so I came back out.

This was some random dive-display... like something you'd see at the PNE... all these divers jumped off very scary heights and did cool tricks.  Check out how high the middle ladder goes.

Super cool rollercoaster... I totally wanted to go on it but it cost almost 8 bucks for 1.5 minutes of fun, plus the ticket lady was on her lunch break so I couldn't buy one.

See what I mean when I said it looks like Disneyland?  Kind of...

Terry and I with Minnie Mouse and some other creature- we couldn't quite figure out who he was... maybe a knock-off version of Hello Kitty?

And the final picture... for those of you who have never travelled to Asia, let me enlighten you about the squatty potty.  It's a cheap toilet in the ground.  You squat above it (facing the door), and do your thing.  Then you step on the pedal behind it and it flushes... clean and simple.  Oh, and they don't supply toilet paper... it's always assumed on this side of the world that you'll bring your own... don't leave home without it!  I'm serious!  By the way, this is one of the cleaner versions... I've used MUCH worse here (sorry, no pics of that... don't want to scare you!)

In other news... the weather here has been amazing since about a week or two ago.  It's been about 20-22 degrees every day... warm enough for shorts or capris and a short-sleeved shirt, but not so hot and humid that you're sweating like a pig 24/7 (like it was in Sept/Oct).  Very comfortable.  I had some new clothes made at the fabric market (that's a whole other post!), for warmer weather, so I'm happy to be wearing those... again, pics to come.

This weekend is a long weekend here in China (Chinese Labour Day)... we get Fri, Sat, and Sun off (and don't even have to make it up by working next weekend... wow, they're getting generous!).  We have a bunch of errands to run tomorrow, plus our cel group.  On Sat we're gonna be going to the X-Games.  Sunday is church and relaxing...

Hope you're all well.  Only 8.5 weeks till we're home for the summer- YESSSS!

A Reminder

Hi Everyone,

Just a reminder that we LOVE it when you call (604.248.5191), but please remember we are FIFTEEN hours ahead of Vancouver time (PST).

We have had some yahoo calling us at 6:30am on weekend mornings (can't figure out who it is), and a friend (who shall remain nameless) who called us at 1am a couple days ago.... not cool at ALL people... we NEED our sleep!

We will try to remember to turn our ringer off before bed, but please remember the time difference. An easy way to remember it is for you to change your am to pm (or vice versa), and add 3 hours. For example, if it's 6pm your Friday night, turn that into 6am, then add 3 hours, so that would be our 9am. That would be an okay time to call most weekend mornings. Andrew might be up (I won't!be!).

Thanks.

Scammed Again!

China just isn't too trust-worthy a place. I can't figure it out b/c in school they are taught really good morals, like honesty, kindness, respect, etc. This is all fine and dandy inside the school, but the minute you step out of the school gates, these morals just don't seem to be present in society. I guess in a country of 2 billion people everyone has to fight tooth and nail just to scrape by. There seems to be this mentality of "try to be #1... otherwise you'll end up being # 2,904,078"... this comes out in all kinds of facets: budging in lines at the supermarket checkout, bank, etc, pickpocketing, not stepping out of the way when you're clearly in someone's path, ripping people off, etc.

This came across yesterday again when I discovered I'd been duped by the grocery store. We are very fortunate to live close to an import grocery store where we can get lots of nice things... I try not to buy too much here b/c the prices of some of the things are WAY too crazy (eg- $12 Can for a box of cereal!). Once in a while it's a nice treat though... such it was recently with feta cheese (which costs about $10 Can for a small block). I LOVE feta cheese but never buy it here b/c of the absorbant price. However, last week I noticed there was a 2-for1 sale on feta cheese... I checked it out and noticed that the two packs of cheese were taped back-to-back with clear duct-tape... I tried to peel it off in the store so I could check the expiry dates on the back, but the tape was too strong. Seeing as this is an upscale kind of store, I decided in good faith that they wouldn't try to rip me off by selling me expired cheese (the package wasn't transparent, so I couldn't see the cheese).

So anyways, last night I was cooking and planning to use the feta cheese (very exciting... sad, I know!). I sliced thru the tape with a knife and opened the first pack... the cheese was beige, slimy, and stinky and the expiry date on the back read Feb 7th, 2009 (more than 2 months ago)!! I was so mad! Fortunately, the second pack I opened was fine. So I guess they decided to tape an old pack to cheese to a fresh pack of cheese and promote it using a 2-for-1 deal.

I know some of you will say "just take it back with your receipt", but the dumb thing is that I left the receipt at the store that day. You see, there was a draw for chocolates... all you had to do was write your name and phone # on your receipt and put it in the box and you could win a box of delicious-ness. I totally put my receipt in that box!

O well... it's only 10 bucks, but it's the trickery that makes me mad... you just don't know who you can trust around here.

Love

Look what my nice husband got for me:  roses and my favorite flowers (freesias)... just because!  

I love him!  He's the best!

Easter

Alright... a little late on this post here, but I wanted to put up pics from our Easter. We were invited for a potluck lunch at our friend Anna's place (she's from the US). It was so much fun. We had lunch, dyed eggs (see the finished products above), then played a series of games including "draw an Easter bunny that represents you", 3-in-a-hat, and tossing the sticky Easter-egg-jelly-cut-outs onto the window to see if we could match up a whole Easter egg... sorry if that makes no sense- better explained in person.

Before lunch... not sure of the boys' names, but the girls from L-R are Bonnie, Anna, and Rachel

Dying Easter eggs... again, not sure of the boys' in the middle names, but Andrew and Bonnie L-R

The last game was tossing eggs off the 13th floor balcony, trying to land them on the neighboring building's rooftop (across the street)... Andrew and Bonnie were both successful!

At the end, we all piled into a cab and went to the Easter service at church... as you can tell from the picture, it was PACKED!! There were so many people that we could only get standing room at the back... guess that's a good problem!

Soccer!

A few weeks ago Ron (our principal) found out that there was gonna be a soccer tournament for BC Offshore Schools this past weekend, and that we were invited. Problem: we didn't have a soccer team! No problem- we created one! The tourney was on a Sat (this past one), and I was asked to coach the team (yay!)... however, I couldn't attend the tourney b/c of Alpha being on Saturdays... so I coached them for the past few weeks, and then Ron did the honors of actually taking them to the tournament.

There are a few boys in our class who are really into soccer, but we don't have a soccer pitch (or any grass for that matter) on our school's campus to practice on... the whole thing is one big concrete mass. Therefore, finding a place to practice was a challenge, but we managed. For starters, we found a park nearby with a semi-flat area to practice (but no real pitch or nets)... this worked until one of our guys took out an old man in a wheelchair (by accident)... that's when I figured we should move on. Next on the hit-list was the university across the street from our high school. Although the soccer pitch there is for students only, we decided to take our chances. Lunch time practices were great; afterschool practices were shut down by the guard, but we got enough play-time in.

The results from the tourney were 1-1, 2-0, and 7-0. So they kinda got smoked, but apparently all the guys they played against were older and bigger... they'll have to try again next year.

As you can see from the pics, this was not too professional... no shinguards, no soccer socks, no cleats... just runners and whatever shorts they had. Good thing we had matching tops made for them! The boys are keen to try again next year when they're older and bigger.

The past 2 weeks

Hey Guys,

First of all, sorry for my 2-week hiatus from blogger-land. Things have been hectic... mainly I've been sick-ish... same old cold/cough kicking my but that I've been stuggling with off and on for at least the past 4 years (thought I had it beat this year, but it just came later in the year instead). So I've been trying to get extra rest. Then we've been super busy with cel group, leading Alpha, church, Easter, friends, work, and the usual busy-ness of laundy, groceries, cleaning, etc. On top of that, both Andrew and I were being evaluated at work for the past few weeks, so I had to eliminate some distractions and make sure my lessons were bang-on (not that I usually do a crappy job, it's just when you know you're being watched you want to be a shining star!).

Okay, so enough with the excuses. Today I wanted to blog about an experience I've had over the past month or so. As many of you know, this year was my first time teaching sex ed (last semester). I went with the approach of teaching abstinence (not having sex before marriage), but also doing a safe sex lesson in conjunction with it. The reason is that I thought it's naive to think all kids are going to wait to have sex before marriage, and if they don't wait, I want them to be safe, seeing as there are SO many scary and disgusting STIs out there these days. I would hate to think that any of my students contracted an STI just b/c I was negligent as a teacher and didn't teach them about how to lower the risk. That being said, I did the full condom-on-the-banana demo. I've never had such a captive audience of students in 4 years... it was pretty funny!

Anyways, my "philosophy" on all this was recently challenged when I met another expat lady who was organizing a facilitator training course to teach a course called "No Apologies" which teaches abstinence to teens. She encouraged me to sign up and I said I'd look into it. Thinking I could use this course to supplement my current teaching model (abstinence PLUS safe sex), I was in the middle of registering for the facilitator training, when I noticed that I had to sign a pledge that I would teach ONLY abstinence and NOT the "plus safe sex" part. According to my "philosophy" (see above paragraph) I had a genuine problem with this, so I emailed the lady, explained my issue, and told her I wouldn't be enrolling in the facilitator training for this reason.

Thinking that was the end of it, I was surprised when she emailed me back a few days later, telling me she had emailed the organization who puts on the course (Focus on the Family) and forwarded my issue. They had replied with a lot attachments they recommended I read. Here is the excerpt that "got me":

"Many educators and organizations have ignored or soft-pedaled the idea of remaining sexually absitent until marriage because they feel that is is unrealistic. They assume that sexual activity among teenagers is inevitable, and that the most reasonable approach is to help them minimize its consequences. But this approach downgrades adolescents to the status of animals who cannot control their primal urges. Furthermore, the same assumption is never made by programs striving to eliminate tobacco, alcohol and drug use among young people." (eg- you don't tell a kid not to drink & drive, unless they're wearing a helmet which will make much safer!).

After thinking about all this, I decided to sign up for the facilitator training after all. It was pretty intense... 19 hours over 2 days (plus 4 hours commuting), but it was totally worth it. (The reason I had to take the training was that you're not really allowed to use the program unless you've been trained and certified in it). I came away with a much better understanding of the course, plus LOADS of resources, including a full curriculum book and workbooks for the students, plus a great Powerpoint presentation, plus a huge props list (lots of object lessons are done).

So the next hoop to jump thru was to get it approved by our school so that I could actually teach it here (assuming that we're staying on for another year in China which we're not 100% sure about yet, but are leaning towards). The course had to be approved by our Canadian principal, as well as the head of the international department, plus the Chinese principal... thankfully I got the green light yesterday, so I'm pretty happy! I'm excited to impact the lives in a super important and meaningful way next year!

Okay, just looking back over this I see it's become a novel of a post. That's enough for now... I'll try to post again soon with a bunch of recent pics... lots of those on our camera.

Hope you're all well.

By the way...

April Fool's!! I was totally just kidding; I am NOT pregnant!

Hope I gotcha!

Best Kept Secret in Shanghai

Guess what everyone? I'm pregnant! That's right... about 5 months along we figure. We'll be going to the doctor soon to find out for sure and get an estimated due date. Hopefully we'll be able to have Baby Nairn in Canada this summer and then bring her/him back to the Shanger with us next year... childcare is super cheap here, and we think it'll be good for him/her to learn Chinese off the nanny for a few years until we can afford to come home for good.

Sorry to be so informal about it and only tell everyone via our blog... we just couldn't decide who to tell first- Andrew's parents or mine, so we decided to just make it a race... whoever checks their email first will know first.

ACE: Arts Charity Extravaganza

Last weekend Andrew and I had the pleasure of helping out with a huge event here in Shanghai called ACE (Arts Charity Extravaganza). It was an event put on entirely by youth (mainly from the many international schools in the area) to raise money for a charity of their choice. This year the chosen charity was Shanghai Healing Home, which is a new orphange that will be offering pre- and post-surgical care for orphaned Chinese infants with cleft lip. (If you want to find out more, you can check out the website: http://shanghaihealinghome.com/)

This picture if of James and Christina Weidner... they are the ones opening the SHH and were giving an info-speech at ACE about it. What's crazy is that they have 4 kids (7, 4,2, and 9 months) of their own, the youngest of which was born in China last summer. They are from New Orleans but have a real heart for China so plan to be here for the rest of their lives. We've been getting to know them; they're a great family!

Anyways, the ACE event was held in a huge loft and featured a fashion show, art gallery (with silent auction), food, live music, dancing, etc. I've been trying to teach my own students about serving, and thought this would be a great way for them to get involved. (Okay, they also need 30 volunteer hours to graduate from the BC program, so I think that might have been a pretty big motivator for a lot of them to sign up). I was expecting maybe 5-10 kids to sign up as volunteers, but was really surprised when nearly all of our 48 students volunteered- isn't that fantastic?! Some of them were even there 2 days before the event, setting up chairs, cleaning the floors, doing silly meaneal tasks that just needed to be done. On the day of, they had a great time though.

Here's Henry, Jay, and Kerry serving drinks.

Marvin and Linda serving food.

Justin, David, Jim, and Greg handing out programs at the door.

A dance performed by some international school students. The boy at the very front of the V was Korean and the CRAZIEST dancer I'd ever seen. He was so good I thought he was a girl (he looked pretty girly too!). He was like Gumby bustin' it out. I took a video and will show you guys when we're home this summer... this is something everyone has to see... all the girls in the audience were screaming like they were at a JT concert or something... you can hear that on the video too.

Tim, Terry, and Frank setting up a sign for the silent auction.

And this little sweetheart is Abby, the 4-year-old daughter of James and Christina. I had just french-braided her hair before ACE started and she wanted me to take a picture of her... one of many, but this is the cutest one to show you guys. She didn't want to wear her sweater (like her mom had asked her to), so I convinced her that it would look pretty cool if I tied it around her neck like a cape. She thought she was super-woman after that!

On the following Monday I asked my students what they had thought of ACE. One boy responded, "There were many beautiful girls there." When I asked them what the best part of the whole event was, they ALL replied, "The pizza and the nuts." Ha ha, not what I was expecting!

Music nights

Anyone who knows Andrew knows that he LOVES playing music. Luckily we packed lightly enough when coming to China last year that he was able to bring along one of his guitars, and recently he started trying to start up another band, which is always a bit tricky, but he stuck with it until he found 2 great guys to play with (Garrett from California and Tyler from Quebec).

Last weekend the 3 of them were practicing at a jam-space close to our house, but apparently the accoustics were pretty bad, so they came up with the idea of going to play in the metro (subway). Andrew called me at this point and invited me along, which was great.

The 4 of us took off for the metro and then set up right where all the people were coming out. It was already 10:30pm, so we didn't think there'd be much traffic, and we also didn't think we'd make any money, but we opened up the guitar case for cash, just to see.

Tyler (the drummer) had found a solid bucket out on the street, which he was pounding with his drumsticks. Andrew and Garrett were playing guitar and singing, and I was the back-up singer. No sooner had we started with Bob Marley's "One Love", then a security guard came along, motioning for us to leave. So we moved about 20 feet down the hall, set up again, and kept playing.

What was really funny was that a whole bunch of Chinese people put money into the case, and every time one of them would, everyone else around them would start clapping. SO many people whipped out their camera phones and were taking pictures and videos of us and seemed SO happy to hear some live Western music. We ended up making almost $10 (Can) in only 30 minutes, which we totally weren't expecting.

Hopefully we'll go to another metro station soon (at rush hour) and see what happens there.


Then this past Sat night we played again at a little expat bar called BeeDee's. Just one set of cover songs, but the crowd loved it. The owner wants Andrew to do regular Sat nights now (3 sets of 10!), but we're not sure b/c it was SO smokey in there, and we don't love that! We came home just REEKING of smoke, and it irritates my throat a lot too. China is SUCH a smokey place... one of the major downfalls of being here.




There were only 2 mics, so Garrett had to share one... a bit awkward seeing as he's way taller then me, but we made do. Next time they'll arrange for 3. You can't see Tyler in this pic, but he'd behind us all on the drums (not a bucket this time)!

2 Year Anniversary

Look what my wonderful husband got me for our 2-year anniversary!  My faves: yellow freesias, lilies, and gerbera daisies... they smell so nice and I'm so happy he thought of me in this special way.

Of course I wasn't the only one on the receiving end... I got him a cool little cactus garden (he loves house plants)... don't know what's wrong with Blogger- why I can't post vertical pics properly, but you get the idea.

Thanks also to our families for their nice cards in the mail, treats, and facebook wishes.  Meant a lot to us!

The past 2 years have been great- so great that we're shooting for 62!

Busted!

I normally try not to grumble too much, but lately it seems like our apartment is falling apart! For those of you who don't know, our apartment is rented for us by our boss, so it's not ours, but it's tricky to get things fixed when you don't speak the language.

First we somehow blew a circuit that shattered a lightbulb all around our house and left us sitting in the dark. We search all over for the circuit board with no luck so we had to call the maintainance guy up... he quickly located the board behind a picture and we were back in business.

Then our water cooler erupted, leaving us with a flooded kitchen (and no mop to clean it up with). That took the landlord almost a week to attend to, leaving us with finding rather creative ways to get clean drinking water.

Then we were without internet for 6 days... that also took the agent about 4 days to get on.

Then the DVD player busted. Long story there, but basically the audio won't work on it. The background noises play, but the main characters' voices don't. The DVDs play fine on our laptop, so we know it's not the DVDs themselves that are broken. This has taken the landlord the past 5 WEEKS to get on top of! He's had it "fixed" twice and each time it comes back even worse than before. The last time he still DROPPED it on the floor so now it looks like it's been thru a battle and makes this loud noise like and airplane taking off. Still, he swears up and down (in Chinese) that it's not broken and refuses to replace it. Cheapskate. We're pretty mad about this. Correction- I'm pretty mad. Andrew told me to just get over it already- we're not getting a new DVD player.

Finally, last night, just as we were about to go to bed Andrew noticed a strange noise coming from the washing machine. We had a closer look and discovered that the faucet connecting the water supply from the wall had sprung a leak and was spraying water all over. The wall was completely soaked and the drywall was peeling down the wall. So that was another call to our agent and the maintainance man who had to come have a look, leave to buy a part (good thing the shops are open late here), come back, hammer around and finally get it all fixed and turn the water back on so that we could brush our teeth in the morning.

Anyways... there's my little rant. I know all houses have things go wrong with them, but sometimes it seems like a LOT in a very short time. Thankfully we'll be out of our place in about 3 months, but I still kinda wonder what will be the next thing to go?