Hi Everyone,
I feel like I haven't posted anything on the blog for a while as Andrew was up for "blog duty" last weekend... I think he did a great job by the way!
I wish I'd had my camera with me last week, but I didn't, so you'll have to settle for a little post without pics- sorry.
Last Thursday was had our first Parent-Teacher Interviews. Of our 48 students, 44 parents came out, which is a SUPER high percentage compared to what we're used to in Canada. Usually at home it's also the parents who don't really need to come, who are the ones that show up. Ie- it's the parents of the well-behaved A-students who show up, when the peeps you really need to see are the parents of the maniac ADHD F-students. So these Chinese parents came for the interviews last Thurs and all were super concerned about their kids... it was funny b/c since my course (Planning 10) isn't that hard, many kids are getting somewhere in the 90s. Many of the parents wanted to know how their child could improve on their mark. I was like "Ummmm, well, little Mei-Ling here is getting 96% already... I'd say that's pretty good for now!" Parents were also super interested in what kind of university their kid would be able to get into, (based on their Term 1 mark from grade 10). Again, we were like "well... it's great that you're concerned about that now, but you really don't need to worry about that quite yet." The other thing that they ALL asked was where their child ranked in the class. Middle of the pack (in the 80s) wasn't good enough, and many kids got dirty looks from their parents. I guess it's just really different here in China where each couple is only allowed to have one child... it's their one big investment and they don't want it to get messed up. Also, in China there aren't enough seats in the universities for everyone to get in, so it's extremely competitive... much moreso than at home. The kids are in school every day from 7:30am to 4:30pm, then have about an hour off for dinner, and then have a mandatory 3-hour study period in the evenings (those who live in the dorms). It's CRAZY!!
The other event that we had last Friday after school was Teacher's Sports Day. It was held out on the school field, and all the staff (0ver 100 of us) took part in a bunch of games... all these crazy things like sack-hopping, 3-legged jump-rope running, picking up ping pong balls with chopsticks, the tennis-ball shuffle relay, etc. My favorite one was where we had to tie a garbage can to our back (with big elastic bands, like a backpack), and catch badminton birdies that were served to us by our teammate from the other side of the net... it was really challenging. At the end of it all each teacher received a big cheesecake to take home. Yup, another random present from the Teacher's Union. I told the Chinese teachers that in Canada we have to pay dues to our union... here they give us cheesecake... works for me! For those of you who have been keeping up with our blog, you'll know that this isn't the first random present to be bestowed upon us this year... we've had boxes of pear-apples, big bottles of cooking oil, gift certificates to the hair salon, boxes of mandarin oranges, etc... they just keep the goods coming... each time more random than the next! We're very thankful though.
Alright, hope you're all well and enjoying getting ready for Christmas. Even here in Shanghai there are lights and trees going up all over the place, which is nice. The Chinese don't celebrate Christmas, but there are so many foreigners here, I guess it's caught on. The bigger reason is probably so they can rake in more cash... who knows.
Bye!
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Friday, November 21, 2008
Weekend Trip
Hey, it's Andrew with more news. Last weekend (Nov. 15/16) we went on a guided tour of a small city called Suzhou (Soo-jo) that is about 2 hours outside Shanghai. We left on Saturday morning from our school at around 8 am. There were about 10 of us who went, including the principle of our school, other school admin, and us four Canadians. We visited several great historic sites, such as a Buddhist temple that was built at the top of a mountain, and a tea house that was also on a mountain, both of which we had to hike up to. They took us out for meals at nice restaurants, and the food was "interesting", but not by Canadian standards. It is difficult to keep an appetite, when each meal has at least one plate with a bird or fish looking up you! We stayed at a decent hotel on Sat. night (think Ramada Inn), and then did some shopping at a huge market on Sunday. Then it was back in our large passenger van, and we returned home by Sunday evening. Good times! Hope you like the pics.
Cheers, Andrew
Shanghai Master's Tennis Tournament
Hey everyone, it's Andrew. On Nov. 13th, Corinna and I went to see the Master's Tennis tournament that was held in Shanghai. It's a bit like Wimbledon, but on a smaller scale, and only men's tennis. We went out the the stadium, which is about an hour and a half bus ride from where we are, and arrived at around 2 pm. It is a very nice facility, which holds approx. 5,000 fans, and is probably less than 5 years old. The roof even opens up for summer events.
As for the matches, we saw a two men's doubles matches, and two men's singles. The most exciting one was between the number 3 ranked in the world Djokovic and the number 6 Tsonga. It was a great tennis, with lot's of amazing net play, and in the end, the "underdog" Tsonga came out victorious. However, at the end of the week, Djokovic was declared the overall winner of the tournament, after beating Roger Federrer a few days later. Here are some pics of the event, and the winner Tsonga signing the camera lens after the game.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Fire Drill
This morning we had a fire drill at school. In Canada a fire drill is like a big free-for-all... an event that usually takes up most of a class, and therefore is pretty popular.
In China, of course you wouldn't want to take away any time away from the Math lesson, so the fire drill is held before school (instead of the daily morning exercise session). In Canada, everyone knows it's just a drill and therefore it can be a bit rowdy... here in China however, we had the firetruck come out for the event, smoke bombs detonated in hallways, and all students jogging in and out of the buildings in perfect single-file lines. Then the head fireman got up on stage and gave a speech to the students while they were standing out on the track... the whole event was videotaped, photographed, and had it's own special banner going across the outdoor stage. It took less than 15 minutes. Very impressive!
In China, of course you wouldn't want to take away any time away from the Math lesson, so the fire drill is held before school (instead of the daily morning exercise session). In Canada, everyone knows it's just a drill and therefore it can be a bit rowdy... here in China however, we had the firetruck come out for the event, smoke bombs detonated in hallways, and all students jogging in and out of the buildings in perfect single-file lines. Then the head fireman got up on stage and gave a speech to the students while they were standing out on the track... the whole event was videotaped, photographed, and had it's own special banner going across the outdoor stage. It took less than 15 minutes. Very impressive!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Teaching Sex Ed in China!
That's right, I was the lucky person who got to teach a bunch of Chinese grade 10's sex-ed!
Here's the deal: this semester I'm teaching a Canadian course called "Planning 10". This is the same course as "Guidance" or "CAPP" or "Personal Planning"... it varies in name from place to place, country to country. The course covers lots of useful life stuff, such as healthy living, education & careers, finances, etc. In the healthy living unit, sex ed was one of the things I was supposed to teach, but I wasn't sure if I should actually do it as it's a bit of a taboo subject in China. I decided to go ahead with it b/c I think kids need to know about it. I totally thought the kids would be really shy and nervous to talk about it, but from the time I walked into the classroom and wrote "SEX" on the board in big letters, they were hooked!! They got kind of giggly but settled down well. We did a lot of brainstorming as a class, which is normally a risky thing to do as these kids are so shy and afraid of giving wrong answers that class discussions usually don't fly. However, on this topic almost everyone had things to contribute!!
The height of excitement was at the end of the week when I pulled out "Mr. Banana" and did the condom demo. The guys sitting at the back of the classroom put up their hands and asked if they could move their chairs up closer for a better view! Never have I seen students SO interested in learning anything before! Of course I was a little nervous doing this too, and really hoped nobody would be walking by the classroom and looking thru the windows in the hallway!
Of course I told the kids that it's best to wait until you're married to have sex, but I think it's very naive to assume that ALL the kids would actually adhere to this advice, and given all the nasty STD's out there (which the students studied in detail), I thought it would be best that they know how to better protect themselves.
Overall, a very successful set of lessons... don't think they'll ever forget it, nor will I!
Halloween '08
The 48 students were divided into 8 teams of 6 and were competing against each other in all the games, of which we kept a grand tally so that one team won the grand prize (ice cream) at the end. As always, our students were totally into it! We had pumpkin bowling, apple bobbing, the mummy wrap (with a mummy dance!), a string weave, and a candy-guessing-jar.
Andrew and I went to Toys R Us here in Shanghai to get our costumes. Sadly, they didn't have a very good selection, and the only adult costume they had was Dracula, so that's what Andrew was. I opted for the fairy costume, but had to settle for the 2-6 year-old version of it... tiny wings, hairband, wand, and a tutu that looked more like a little ruffle on me!
The best reaction of the day was when Andrew walked into the classroom dressed as Dracula. As you can see from the picture above, it was like the Chinese Paparazzi... they all rushed up to him and started taking his picture and saying "Ohhhhhh Mista Nay-rayn..." Very funny!
Even the Principal and Vice Principal of the big Chinese school we work in came up to be part of the party... various kids donated parts of their costumes for a bit so they could feel included in the dressing up... at one point the principal was wearing a big black witch's hat with long neon-green hair attached... he was lovin' it!
I am so happy with our students... they really took the initiative to make this party even better. Without being asked, they somehow came up with tons of decorations for the rooms, painted artwork for the walls, etc. What a great memory!
Congratulations!

A Quick Update
Hi Everyone,
Hope you're all well. Sorry I haven't posted anything for a couple weeks. The reason is this: I'm on my computer SO much at work that by the time I get home in the evening I have absolutely NO interest in sitting down at the computer again. And on the weekends... well, last weekend we spent about 4 hours talking to friends and family on the phone. As nice as it was, after sitting for that long I again had no interest in sitting any longer in order to type type type. So I hope you will understand the infrequency of these posts from time to time!
That being said, we are doing really really well here in Shanghai. We've been here for 2 months now and are definitely feeling a little more settled in than we were last month. We're really enjoying our church and home group, as well as our jobs. Our students continue to be excellent (most of them anyways!). They are so hardworking, respectful, friendly, co-operative, etc. I always look forward to teaching them, which is more than I can say for teaching in Canada! Honestly, for the first time in years I am really enjoying my teaching job... I just hope this lasts! I feel like we've hit the jackpot of jobs here: great job that pays well, nice apartment (which we don't have to pay for), lively city, the chance for Andrew and I to be together more than we were in Vancouver, cheap manicures and massages right across the street, good food, etc.
October has been a really nice month in terms of weather here. When we first arrived here at the end of August it was SO hot and humid... just standing outside would cause us to sweat in buckets, nevermind walking anywhere! (We just got used changing our clothes all the time and doing TONS of laundry). September was much the same as August. Anyways, October has been mostly sunny (only 2 or 3 days of rain) with temperatures in the low-mid 20's (celcius). Still warm enough to wear shorts and a t-shirt with maybe a light sweater in the evenings, but not sticky-sweaty-hot. Today is November 1st and you can definitely notice that it's cooling off, but it's still no colder than 15 degrees ever so far. Very comfortable.
We're also making friends here, slowly but surely. It's funny b/c apparently there are thousands of ex-pats here in Shanghai, but they're all mixed in with the other 18 million Chinese people, so you have to hunt for the white people... kinda like doing a "where's Waldo?" picture. We've met quite a few cool people thru our church and home group, and then last Sat we went to a volleyball night. It's a group of expats that play v-ball every Sat night at a local high school gym. We weren't quite sure what to expect but decided to give it a go. It turned out to be a way higher level than we're used to with a lot of intense players, but everyone was really friendly and we had a great time. Don't think we'll make it a regular thing, but def once in a while.
As for missing home, it's not too bad. I know Andrew is wishing he could be in Whistler in a few weeks from now (when the mountains open), and I'm def missing playing soccer with my team in Vancouver. I feel so sad for my poor little cleats, sitting there all alone in my cleat-bag in our shoe closet here. I brought them along in hopes of finding a team to play with here, but so far I haven't been able to find anything suitable, despite having searched tons since we arrived. O well, maybe something will still come up.
Our church is great and we are continually challenged by the messages, and thus we are growing, which is great! At our home group we are doing a multi-week study on serving others, which has spawned a lot of good discussions among the group. Andrew and I usually continue these discussions afterwards as it's about a 30-min walk back home. So we're learning and growing a lot together.
Next weekend (Nov 7-9) Andrew and I are going to a marriage conference. We heard it being advertised at our church so decided to sign up. It's being held at the Ramada hotel across town and I'm SO excited to sleep in a big soft comfy hotel bed!! I've heard that the conference part is also super and will bring your marriage to a whole new level. So we'll see how it goes... def looking forward to it.
Alrighty, that's about it in terms of an update. I really hope you're all doing well!
Congratulations!

Sunday, October 19, 2008
On Being Together 20/7
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Thanksgiving '08

Ammar with the 25 lb turkey!

The HUGE turkey!

The 28 guests packed into Ammar's living room
Many of you have been asking us if we celebrated Canadian Thanksgiving over here last weekend, and yes we did! We recently met a couple at church called Pam and Ammar. Pam is from Manitoba and her boyfriend Ammar is from Oregon & Kuwait. Anyways, we started hanging out with them and really enjoy their company... they are both really into working out, being outside, travelling, etc... much the same as us. They invited us to their feast and we were thrilled... we actually looked forward to it ALL week long b/c we're getting a bit tired of just eating rice and noodles over here and were stoked for some proper Western food. Ammar hosted it at his house as it's huge, and it was pot-luck style, so everyone brought a dish. Team AC did it's typical mondo-salad!! Loads of people from their schools, work, and church were invited and it was a great opportunity to meet more expats our age. Ammar's apartment was also incredible... he is on the 18th floor with windows all over it, looking out over a man-made lake in his complex (where you can rent kayaks), the city, and farmland WAY off in the distance. He is actually paying more rent there than we are renting our place out for in Vancouver... o ya, China can be expensive if you want it to be. This place was like the Hilton! We will be happy to go visit him again!
The only lousy thing that happened that night was that my mobile phone was stolen out of my purse on the subway trip on the way over to Ammar's house. I was SO careful to keep my purse in front of me the whole time b/c it was super duper crowded in the subway, but then moved it behind me for only about one minute while walking over to the doors right before we got off. I guess that's when it must have been stolen. To be fair, it was kinda my fault b/c it wasn't zipped deep into my purse like it should have been to make it more secure. But still, someone lifted the flap-pocket of my purse, found the phone, and took it. Arggh! The funny thing is that everyone I've told over here in Shanghai has had absolutely no sympathy for me... they all say stuff like "well you really should have been more careful" or "ya, that's happened to me 3 times on the subway already, be careful!".... so I guess I learned my lesson the hard way. The good news is that I bought a way cooler phone yesterday that I like even better than the stolen one... so it's all good!
Anyways, that's last week's update... sorry for the delay! Hope you're all well.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Our Gym

We ended up finding a great gym called Wills. It's a chain, just like Fitness World is at home, with about 7 locations around Shanghai. (You can see their website at: www.willsgym.com/index_en.html or google it if that link doesn't work). Unfortunately there were no locations super close to our place; the closest one is about 10-15 minutes by taxi, depending on traffic. Anyways, that's the location we ended up going with. It's really modern looking with tons of cardio machines, weights, and the best part.... it has a POOL!! Swimming is my favorite thing in the entire world to do, so this was important. Here's a pic of it:
Now the crazy thing is that, as you'll notice, this pool is shaped kind of like 2 kidney beans and has no lanes. You can swim in a straight line all the way across, but the Chinese people seem to enjoy swimming in much the same fashion as they drive. This means swimming/thrashing in circles thru the 2 kidney beans makes perfect sense in their minds, and doesn't mesh well with Andrew and I trying to power thru from one end to the other in straight lines. Arghh! We've definitely had our share of collisions! In addition, the pool is manned by a very sleepy lifeguard who is often found nodding off in the corner, while his boss sits in the lifeguard room smoking (a VERY high percentage of Chinese people smoke by the way... and everywhere, like in restaurants, offices, etc). Now it's fine with me if this guy wants to ruin his own lungs, but the problem is he leaves the door open into the pool room, so whenever you come up for air you inhale a bunch of smokey goodness from Mr. Boss. They kind of give me a funny look when I get out of the pool and go close the door, but that's they way I roll!
Now let me tell you about the cardio machines. They are great, but I HATE them!! I have always been an outside-exercise kind of girl. That means I prefer soccer over basketball, and running outside over running inside on a treadmill. I somehow just have a really tough time, mentally, running in one spot. 5 minutes is terrible, 10 minutes is deadly, and 15 minutes is where I go shooting off the back of the treadmill. Seriously! Which is really strange since I can run happily for over an hour without problems when I'm outside. All this to say that I can't stand being on a treadmill, but I've come to the conclusion that if I don't want to return to Canada next summer as a sack of lard, I'd better be movin' my but throughout the year, and if that means being on a stupid treadmill, then so be it!
Okay, enough about that. Moving on... when we signed up for the one-year gym membership, the guy threw in a "bonus" for us. This was comprised of a tacky Wills gym bag each, and a 500RMB gift certificate each to the spa below the gym. (Remember, divide 500RMB by about 6 to get the Canadian dollar value). We were pretty stoked about the gift certificates and were hoping to get really nice massages or something with it. So we went downstairs to the counter to schedule our luxury pampering date. Here is another example of Chinese scamming: the only thing that these GCs were actually good for were facials, which all cost around 300RMB. The GCs were for 500RMB, so there wasn't enough on them to get 2 facials, and we also weren't allowed to combine our remaining 200RMB each for one of us to get a second facial. Anyways, all complaining aside, the facials were really really nice. They had Andrew and I lie down side-by-side on these gurney-things (that's what you lay on at a spa), wrapped us all up in towels on our heads and shoulders, and went to work for 1.5 hours. During that time we had all kinds of goops, scrubs, and masks spread on our faces. Our skin felt really tight and relaxed after all that. (I know tight and relaxed are kind of opposites, but if you've ever had a facial you'll know how your skin can be both these things at the same time). Here's a couple pics of Andrew waiting for the process to start, after being "towelled":
Now here's the kicker: just 2 days after purchasing this big one-year gym membership we were walking around the corner from our house when we saw a big sign on the outside of a building in construction: "Wills Gym Opening Soon".... arghhhh! We couldn't believe it!! The timing was incredible (and not in a good way). Of course we've stopped by the new location a couple times (where they're already trying to sell memberships) to try to change our membership over to this new location. So far they've said no, but there's a saying here in China that "Everything is negotiable", so we're not giving up!
Friday, October 10, 2008
Indoor Snowboarding Anyone?
Hey guys, it's Andrew. On Sept. 29th, Corinna and I went indoor snowboarding! Now, don't get me wrong, it wasn't Whistler, but we had a great time.
In the morning, we hopped in a cab, then took the subway out to an area west of the city. From there, we took another cab to this huge building that had a word like "Snowland" or something on the outside. "Here we go", I'm thinking.

After paying, we were given very "interesting" colored snowpants and jackets, along with these wimpy gloves. I'm pretty sure half of China had used my outfit over the last few years! Fortunately,
Corinna and I had brought our own touques. I didn't even want to go there. We proceeded downstairs to choose our boots and boards. The boots were okay, the board screamed rental. Then, we went past a turn style, where someone swipes your timecard to show what time you entered at.
You go through the doors, and enter this HUGE room that resembles an ice rink slanted upwards on one side. The slope was a total of about 200 m in all, with the bottom half being a flatter run (crowded), and the top half being what we would call an intermediate, or "blue" run at home (empty). So we headed up the slope, first by a moving sidewalk escalator that was on one side of the run, then by a Poma lift, which is similar to a t-bar.
The slope was okay, and the snow was a bit granular, almost "corny", if that makes sense. It was a little bit loud in there too because they had the snow blowers on the whole time. After about 2 hours, we had our fill, and headed back. "Let's see here; Indoor snowboarding in China in September..........check".
Talk soon,
Andrew
Friday, October 3, 2008
Army Training Week
About 3 weeks ago we were suddenly and mysteriously told (like so many things in China!) that all our students would not be attending school the following week as they had to attend army training. "What for," you ask? Are they being trained in case China goes to war? Nope. It's just for "military education" so they have an idea of what it's like to be in the army. Fine with us! We had a week of work with no teaching, which was a great time to do some planning. Monday was actually a statutory holiday, we worked Tues and Wed, took Friday off to go sightseeing, and on Thurs we drove out on a big bus to visit our kids at the army!
Our kids (48 grade 10s) were taken about 2 hours west of Shanghai (inland) where they, along with another 2000 grade 10s from other schools, did drills, marching, obstacles courses, shooting practice (with fake guns apparently), and team-building stuff. Their days went from 6am to 10pm for 5 days straight. The whole week it was about 35 degree Celsius with no wind and the poor kids had to wear the full army fatigues: long camoflouge pants, shirts, jackets, and some chose to wear hats so they wouldn't get a tan (which is a bad thing for Asian girls b/c they all want to look pasty white, which I really don't understand). Anyways, on with the story. The army training was held at a place called "Oriental Land", which is a really hard place to describe. Basically it's similar to a massive theme/amusement park that covers hundreds of acres and doesn't have rides, but instead is filled with parks, a giant lake, a hotel, and facilities to house and train national athletes for swimming, rowing, etc. It wasn't the normal army grounds, but is often used for big groups such as this.
Anyways, when we arrived there on Thurs morning we found our kids who were all lined up and ready to march off to their next activity. We felt SO bad for them since it was so hot out, but it was also kind of funny to see them all dressed up like little soldiers.
The kids all had to line up outside in front of the hall and a real soldier yelled at them for a while (into the microphone no less), saying who-knows-what. The kids just stood there at attention and didn't make a peep. Then the principal of our school (who had also come along that day) made a little speech into the microphone. The whole time us teachers were standing in the shade near the entrance to the building and all the kids in their full-on army-heat-suits were standing under the blazing sun. Again, poor them. Here's a picture:
The last stop on our Oriental Land tour was a giant walk-way/open mall that had loads of statues of historically famous people to the left and right, along with little plaques of what they'd accomplished in life. It would have been a very nice area to browse had it not been 35 degrees! Here's a couple pictures of the best ones:
Andrew hanging out with Isaac Newton.
This one of Beethoven was taken soley for my dad... hope you enjoy it, Dad!
If you're wondering why I'm suddenly posting so many entries on this blog recently (after a few weeks of a dry spell), it's b/c we have the week off. I'm not sure if I explained it in one of my previous posts, but it's National Holiday week here. It's been really nice to have the time to go sight-seeing, get extra sleep, work out, etc. And it's also been a good time to write some posts. I'm sure you can expect a couple more in the next few days before we head back to work.
Our Church
The church we now go to is called Shanghai Community Fellowship (SCF for short). It's all expats, so both of the services are in English. There are a TON of people who attend, and it's so cool to be worshipping with people from around the world. So far we have gone 4 times and really enjoyed it. The feel of the whole thing is kind of American, including the worship team which has a resident sax player (we think we're in a Kenny G concert sometimes!)... but it's cool. The preaching is solid, and the community feel of the whole thing is also really good. One funny thing about it is that the services are on Sunday afternoons, not mornings (we can choose from the 2pm or 4pm service). This gives Sundays a whole new feel as we can sleep in, relax, and then go to church feeling refreshed. Then we usually go out for dinner with people we meet at church afterwards.
Another great thing about this church is that it has a lot of cell groups. For those of you reading this blog who are not familiar with this concept, a cell group (aka: home group, growth group, care group, etc) is a smaller gathering than a Sunday service... sort of like a small Bible study. One of its purposes is to get to know other people in the church better. Often with churches that are really big, it's easy to get "lost in the shuffle" and not really get to know anyone that well, which is discouraging. With cell groups you meet once a week, study the Bible, talk about how it applies to our life, maybe have some worship (singing), some dessert, chat a bit, etc. Andrew and I led one of these for the past 2 years at our house, through our church in Vancouver (PGCC) and were really encouraged by it. It's nice to take a break from leading one this year, but still great to be involved in one. Our group meets Friday nights and has about 10 people in it from all over the world.
One little note to all of you reading this blog who go to church regularly: make an effort every Sunday to look around, figure out who's new, and go talk to that person... show a little interest! I know this sounds obvious, but too often it's so easy just to talk to the people you're familiar and comfortable with. I say all this b/c Andrew and I are both really comfortable with being in church and meeting new people, yet we found it really hard the first few Sundays at the SCF church not knowing ANYONE there... (not knowing anyone in the whole country for that matter!). Not that the people at this church are mean or anything, but I felt they could have done a bit better of a job of saying hi and making conversation with us. It seems that as soon as church is over here, there is a massive stampede for the exit, which makes it a wee bit awkward to strike up a conversation with people as they go sprinting by! I'm happy to say that we've met a few cool people over the weeks and have gone out with them (more on that in another post), so we're content now... but just remember to make new people feel comfortable and welcomed, be that in church or any other place!
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